No wonder I fell in love with him.
I say this to myself a lot, often followed by a long, drawn-out “duhhhhhh.”
And why?
Because whenever I’m tuned out, dismissed, or disrespected by someone, I immediately recall how amazing it felt to be, well... NOT tuned out, dismissed, or disrespected. I go back in time, to those past moments when someone made me feel,,,
They hurt you.
Badly.
And they never apologized.
But because you’re soft-hearted, understanding, sweet (on a good day), and were taught by Sister Mary Margaret and Father Monahan that “... they know not what they do,” you forgave them.
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I’m not tweeting right now.
From the age of five to nineteen, I carried a secret fear that one of my parents would die at the hands of the other.
Not your typical childhood concern, is it?
I grew up a witness to domestic violence. I think that pretty much eliminates my childhood from the “typical” category.